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Tips for Dealing with Trauma Post-Divorce

February 10, 2022 by Divorce Concierge Leave a Comment

Let’s start with a simple question: why is divorce so traumatic? The question is simple, but the answer can be both simple and complex at the same time. Simply put, divorce can be traumatic because it represents the breakdown of something which was intended to be permanent. This, by itself, virtually guarantees that there will always be some level of trauma induced by divorce. Divorce can also be traumatic for a whole host of other specific reasons. If abuse or domestic violence occurred, for instance, this can be extremely traumatic. No matter what the cause of the trauma, there are ways that people can go about healing themselves after a divorce. Here are a few tips people should consider.

1: Engage in Regular Physical Exercise

Physical exercise isn’t just something which pays dividends in the form of a more toned body, it also yields important psychological benefits. Physical exercise can lead to substantial improvements in mental wellbeing; this is backed up by very solid and well-established biochemistry. When you exercise vigorously, your body releases chemicals which create a feeling of wellbeing and additional energy. Thus, engaging in regular exercise can be especially useful following divorce.

2: Connect with Friends and Loved Ones

Connecting with friends and loved ones after a divorce can have a huge positive impact on your mental wellbeing. Divorce represents a relationship breakdown, and so embracing other functional relationships can have a special significance. Reaching out to friends and loved ones can be particularly beneficial when the divorce involves a lot of unpleasantness and infighting.

3: Practice Meditation & Other Relaxation Techniques

Divorce almost invariably involves a great amount of stress. When you must deal with legal fees, court costs, filing motions, court appearances, custody disputes, and so forth, you can put your mind and body through a lot of stress. In response, you need to be sure to relax and give yourself a much-needed rest from the whole experience. Practice meditation, or yoga, or other well-known relaxation techniques to help you with your recovery.

4: Talk with a Therapist

For various reasons, therapy has a bit of a stigma in Texas and throughout the country. This stigma isn’t fair, however, because therapy is really just about helping people work through their life problems. Every now and then, people go through difficult experiences – such as divorce – and therapy is useful in grappling with these experiences and moving forward in a healthy, progressive way. Therapy is not a psychiatric evaluation, the person seeking therapy isn’t a medical patient; the seeker is just discussing normal issues with someone who is well-equipped to talk with them. This can be a very helpful route for someone to pursue.

5: Indulge in Hobbies & Recreation

Finally, another way to recover from post-divorce trauma is to indulge in your hobbies. If you’ve been an avid stamp collector, or rare book collector, or have other hobbies, pursue those interests with a renewed vigor. The reason why this can help with the recovery process is because you’re fully embracing yourself and the things which make you unique. You’re embracing your own self-identity at a time when your identity is likely to be a bit shakier.

Contact Divorce Concierge for Additional Information

These are just a few tips to help relieve some of the trauma which can come with divorce. If you’d like more useful tips, contact Divorce Concierge or email us at assistant@DivorceConcierge.com.

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